sobota, 28. maj 2011

Avoiding the 3 Behaviors That Convey Low Status

Avoid the three behaviors below and you'll immediately separate yourself
above 95% of the other guys out there. That by itself, when women sense it,
immediately makes them feel wetter around you.

1. Bragging
“You should see my awesome house.”
“I’m about to get a raise up to six figures a year!”
“I have a huge dick.”
The irony of bragging is what it communicates—you’re a needy guy who
craves approval. Why else would you have to talk yourself up like that?
Avoid directly verbalizing your good qualities and let the woman discover
them on her own. This displays your confidence in yourself as well as making
you a bit “mysterious” in her eyes.
Be an endless source of fascinating discoveries for her, not a blowhard.

2. Putting yourself down
Lower status men tend to be modest for fear of offending others and
because they want to be seen as polite. Alpha males avoid self-effacing
modesty except when it’s an obvious joke.
High self-esteem is attractive to women. Think highly of yourself and a
woman will think highly of you.
It’s okay to make an obvious joke about putting yourself down, like in the
following examples (said with a playful tone of voice):
• “I’m so weak, I’m not sure if I can lift that heavy thing.” – Spoken by a
bodybuilder
• “I wear a leather jacket to compensate because my penis is so small.
It’s not even half an inch!” - Spoken by a man with huge confidence
who obviously does not have sexual insecurities. (That’s why he’s
able to joke about penis size.)
• “I’m unemployed and live in my parents’ basement!” – Spoken by a
well-dressed man who obviously has loads of money.

3. Putting other people down
“Ha ha look at that bum in rags!”
When you put down others, you reveal your own insecurities. The
homeless guy on the sidewalk is no threat to you, so why act as if he is?
And since women are sensitive creatures who feel sorry for the less
fortunate, you’ll trigger her into taking up for whoever you put down.
Similarly, don’t put down guys who are your sexual competition, since that
too reveals your insecurity. Instead simply don’t pay attention to them, since
they’re not worthy of your attention

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