Your world is what you perceive it to be. On the internet, you can find a
vast range of beliefs, and all of those beliefs are backed by people’s own
observations.
For example, many religious sites talk about God as if it’s obvious he
exists, while atheists say that’s nonsense. Read further and you find compelling
arguments for both views! How can that be, since both sides can't be right? It
happens because each is a different person’s view of reality.
What if you break your leg? Is that bad? You’re probably thinking, “Damn
right, it’s bad.” But let’s suppose you’re a British soldier in 1914 and that broken
leg just prevented you from becoming cannon fodder on the Western Front.
Then you’d thank your lucky stars for your leg cast and crutches!
So here’s the thing: reality is what you perceive it to be. There is no
objective reality. Everything is open to interpretation. How about if it’s a rainy
day? You’ll have an entirely different perspective depending on whether you
want to go on a picnic of if you’re a farmer suffering through a drought, Even a
flood isn’t bad for everyone—people who kayak whitewater love floods.
Thus, you have the power to view the world the way you want to. You can
have your own reality, your own frame on things.
A person with a weak reality gets drawn into other people’s perceptions of
the world. A person with a strong reality is unaffected by other people’s
perceptions, and instead draws others into his world.
Let’s say you go to nightclubs and have trouble finding a place to park. A
beta male who lets external factors control him will be upset by this. But you can
frame it in a way that you don’t have to be upset. Not being able to find a place
to park means that there will be lots of people in the clubs, which means lots
more women.
Ever get stuck in a traffic jam? That’s okay, because it’s a chance for you
to take a break, relax, meditate, and maybe listen to some soothing music. You
don’t have to join the rest of the herd in becoming upset. You have the power to
have a good perception of events.
Now let’s look at what kind of frame you have when it comes to yourself.
You want to have the frame that you are a prize that women will earn.
Easy Alpha Male Exercise – Fixing your mindset about yourself with
women.
You need to know that every woman would be lucky to have you. Ponder
the following questions. Come up with answers to them, and write down those
answers.
This exercise may be easy, but it's important, because if you’ve not yet
fully internalized the alpha male mentality, it is essential to redirect your thought
patterns. Plus, it's always helpful to jot down a few things that you can later reread
when you need to be refreshed on your journey.
1. If you allow a woman into your life, how can you make her feel good in many
ways?
2. Imagine you are a man of high value, whose time and attention are craved by
lots of people. What are your rules for allowing people to receive the gift of your
time and attention?
3. What are some fun things that you like doing that women also like? (Women
need emotions in order to become sexually receptive, so they enjoy things that
are emotionally relevant such as talking on the phone with friends. The easiest
way to kill a woman’s mood for sex is to talk about logical things such as
corporate balance sheets.)
4. What are some qualities you have (or can develop) that women would find
attractive?
5. What are some benefits you would need to get from a woman in order for you
to bring her into your life?
Come up with your own answers, but keep in mind that there are certain
things that women must have, such as great sex, passion, positive emotions,
and sensuality.
While you provide benefits for women, you also want to screen them for
quality. As a man, you probably have strong sexual desires (I certainly do!), so
you would not want a woman who is frigid. For me, behaviors that will make me
leave a woman are dishonesty, childish drama, and obesity.
The kind of woman I like is one who genuinely likes me, enjoys life, and
takes care of herself.
Only you know what you want and what wonderful benefits a woman will
gain by entering your world. I strong encourage you to complete this exercise
before reading further in this guide.
Okay, now that you you’ve read the questions, thought about them, and
written them down, you've now got your roadmap written out on how to become
attractive and confident.
Put differently, you are on your way to realizing how special you are. In
the world of love, you are like a Lamborghini. If a woman doesn’t realize your
value, then it’s her loss, not yours.
I really like the Lamborghini analogy because of its relevance to a man’s
relations with women. A Lamborghini doesn’t have inherent value—it can either
be a hunk of metal that gets bad gas mileage, or it can be a thing of beauty and
power that you would pay as much as a house for. It all depends on your
perceptions.
Lamborghini dealers have a strong mindset that their cars are highly
valuable. As a result, they don’t just let anyone in for a test drive. They don’t
bargain with the price they expect to receive, unlike Ford or Chevy dealers who
lack the high value mentality.
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